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Woman on PhoneWho & Whom

Adding a descriptive clause

 

 

 

 

Relative Pronouns for people — who or whom
SUBJECT PRONOUNS OBJECT PRONOUN

Use who to replace the subject noun of a modifying clause (relative clause) for an animate noun (a person). The pronoun that is used informally.

Use whom, who to replace the object noun of a modifying clause (relative clause) for an animate noun (a person). The pronoun that is used informally.

The woman who called you is my friend.

The woman whom/ who you called is my friend.

The woman that called you is my friend. (informal)
 

The woman that you called is my friend. (informal)

which is not used for people

 

 

Subject who vs. Object whom Pronouns
WHO - SUBJECT OF THE CLAUSE WHOM / THAT – OBJECT OF THE CLAUSE

Who connects the subject of the modifying clause to the noun in the main clause. The subject pronoun cannot be omitted (deleted).  That is used informally for a personal pronoun.

Who or whom (more formal) connects the object of the modifying clause to the noun in the main clause. The object pronoun can be omitted (deleted).   That is used informally for a personal pronoun.

move over who modifies woman
The woman
        who called you     is here.
move overShe called you.

move over who modifies woman
The woman
          (whom) you called      is here.  You can omit whom.
move overYou called her. 
 

move over who modifies woman
The woman
        that called you     is here. (informal)
move overShe called you.

move over who modifies woman
The woman
          (that) you called      is here. (informal)   You can omit that.
move over You called her.
   

 

 

 

 

Object Pronouns

Omitting Who(m)

 

 

When can you omit who?
SUBJECT PRONOUN OF CLAUSE OBJECT PRONOUN OF CLAUSE

When who takes the place of the subject noun/pronoun of a clause, it cannot be omitted (deleted).

When who(m) takes the place of the object noun/pronoun of a clause, it can be omitted (deleted). 

The woman — who called you — is here.
She called you.     The woman is the subject of the clause.

The woman[whom] you called — is here.
You called the woman The object of the clause is the woman.
 

 

 

 

How do you know if it takes the place  of an object?   (This is a method for simple clauses.)
FOLLOWED BY A VERB FOLLOWED BY A SUBJECT

If the relative pronoun is followed by a verb, then it is likely that the relative pronoun is the subject of the clause. It cannot be deleted.

If the relative pronoun is followed by a subject noun or pronoun – I, we, he, she, they – then that or who must be the object and it can be deleted.

They guy who   showed us his car appears to be honest.  (Cannot delete who.)
move overwho before a verb(verb)

The guy  [who] we spoke to appears to be honest.  (Can delete who.)
move overwho before a subject noun(subject pronoun)

The guy who   sold me the car disappeared.                      (Cannot delete who.)
move overwho before a verb(verb/

The guy [who/whom] Jack sold the car to is angry.  (Can delete who.)
move overwho before a subject noun(subject pronoun)  

The driver who  probably hit my car lives next door.          (Cannot delete who.)
move overwho before a verb(adverb + verb)

The driver [who] Jack and I probably hit is angry.     (Can delete who.)
move overwho before a subject noun(double subject pronoun)  
 

 

 

 

 

Modifying Clauses

Preposition Placement

 

 

AT END OF CLAUSE BEFORE THE RELATIVE PRONOUN

When the verb accepts an indirect object, the object preposition is likely to occur at the end of the clause. Leaving the preposition at the end of the clause is informal use.

When using whom or which , a preposition belonging to the indirect object is placed before the relative pronoun. This is formal use (academic and business).

The police officer whom I gave my passport to   took down my information.
move overI gave my report to the officer.

*The police officer to whom I gave my passport  took down my information.
move overI gave my report to the officer.

The police officer who I gave my passport to   took down my information.  

*The police officer to who I gave my passport  took down my information. (Use whom.) 

The police officer that I gave my passport to   took down my information. 

*The police officer to that I gave my passport  took down my information.  (Use whom.) 

The passport which he was looking at    had expired the week before. 

*The passport at which he was looking   had expired the week before.

The passport that he was looking at  had expired the week before.
 

*The passport at that he was looking   had expired the week before. (Use which.)
 

*Yellow highlighted words are examples of incorrect usage.

 

 

 

Common Mistakes
ERRORS FIXES 

*The guy is here who wants to play football.     

The guy who wants to play football   is here.
move overwho before a subject nounThe clause, the who-clause, must be next to the word it modifies.

*The man which you are talking about isn't a friend.

The man whom/ who/ that you are talking about   isn't a friend.
Which is not used as a personal pronoun for a person. Use that.
 

*There's a man on the phone wants to talk with you.  missing relative pronoun

There's man on the phone who wants to talk to you. A subject pronoun cannot be omitted.

 

 

 

 

 

Practice

Taking Classes

 

 

 

Which relative pronoun(s) can complete each sentence?

Select an option to the right.   (Internet Explorer users may need to click inside the feedback box to force the text to appear.)

 

# YOUR RESPONSE FEEDBACK
1 My friend told me about a studentThe student has taken the TOEFL test twelve times!





2 The professor didn't know the answer to my question. I talked to the professor.





3 I am looking for a college program. The program offers a lot of computer courses.





 
4 Some of the courses have been very useful.  I took the courses last semester.




5 My friend studies with me in the afternoon. My friend is in my Networks class.





0 (omit the pronoun)
6 Computer Information Systems is a field of studyThe study will guarantee a good job after graduation.





7 The class was Programming with PHP.  I didn't do will in the class.




8 The courses are mostly graphic arts classes. The courses are taught in the evening.




9. You should always study the subjects.  You really like the subjects.




10. A person will do well in life.  A person has a positive outlook.